Is it Love you are Seeking?

seekyourdestiny_with_ginaAuthor: SeekYourDestiny with Gina

There comes a point in everyone’s life where they endure a relationship that shapes who they become as a partner. These relationships often end in heartache. Yet, They teach you so much about what you really want, and need out of a successful relationship. Often my clients say they want someone who is their perfect match.

However, Are you subconsciously choosing a lover knowing that the relationship will not work as a way to avoid pain, and rejection? Finding love is only half the battle. Keeping it alive often feels like the war. No relationship is perfect. A new relationship is being formed while an existing relationship is saying it’s final good-bye as you read this.

000014412683MediumThere is someone out there now looking for someone just like you. Yet, That doesn’t apply if you are not really ready for love or know exactly who you are as a partner. You can’t expect someone to commit to you, or give you unconditional love if you don’t have love for yourself, or know what you can bring to them as a partner.

As a Love and Relationship Expert, I have found that people tend to seek out partners who compliment them in some way or those that they settle for in the belief that they themselves have some unsolvable problem and it is easier to accept less than to take a risk in the unknown for something more rewarding. Then eventually every relationship reaches that point where you have to ask that ultimate question.

Did I finally get it right or Is this just another bad version of all of my past mistakes? Because you feel broken in some way, and seek out someone who can heal you or distract you from what you really feel inside. Staying in a broken relationship doesn’t always show your strength. Sometimes, You gain the most strength walking away, and standing up against your deepest fears. That is when you figure out who you truly are as a person, partner, and finally learn what you need compared to what you want.

So, If you are looking for the wrong person. Let it be the right wrong person. The kind of person that you can see, and know without doubt that he/she is the kind of problem worth having. Someone who is all wrong for you in just the right way; a problem who is absolutely worth your trouble – this is love.

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Slow Down and Listen!

quietsound_buttonAuthor: Quietsound

Sometimes it’s very difficult to listen to and then heed advice that is given to you and follow through with what you know you should be doing. I “listen” to all the small voices by means of spiritual guides, the archangels, deceased loved ones, and anyone else that wants to send a message. I “listen” for my clients, friends, and family, and because of that, very rarely do I listen to, or am I able to hear, the warnings for myself. This is because in all of my readings I totally pull away from any message regarding “me” so that I can give my clients the best reading possible. It’s important to note that what I am about to tell you could be a matter of life and death in some of those messages that are not heeded!

I have a very special connection to all of the archangels, but primarily it’s Michael (the protector) that hovers around me and gives me messages about everyone. This story pertains to me and two instances where in one case I listened and then in another didn’t listen to a very important message that was meant for me specifically.

I am a human being just like the rest of you and life just goes by so quickly and there is no time to do anything so we all rush around not thinking half of the time. On this particular day I forgot to pick up the mail at the mail gazebo down the street and it was late at night. I decided I better do this now and so I told my husband I was going to do this and he asked me if I wanted him to go and I said no. Then I heard this “yes” message from Michael. So I listened and said to my husband yes, I think you’d better. He told me ok, let me take the dogs out front before we go, and as frustrated as I was I really didn’t want to wait for the dogs. I said no, let’s go now! Then I heard the “no, wait” message and said to him, ok, let them do what they have to do and it was only a few minutes. So when he put the dogs back into the house we left and my husband was driving. When we rounded the corner we came upon a car upside down and thrown into a driveway across the street with neighbors outside. Here this person came screaming into the neighborhood, rounded the corner, took it too sharply, and hit the car on the other side of the street, taking it flying into the neighbors’ yard upside down. We looked in horror. Thank goodness the car thrown across the street was parked there and no one was inside of it but the horror of it all was that if we were a couple minutes earlier that car would have been US flying into the neighbor’s yard and upside down. That is an example of listening and heeding warnings. Slow down and listen!!! Delays can be very important!

This next example is of someone (me) not listening to a warning and could have really been catastrophic to the outcome of many lives. It was another busy day rushing around, we had errands to do, I had physical therapy, etc. and my husband was making hummingbird food with water and sugar and asked my sister and myself if we wanted to go out to eat. I of course said yes as I hate to cook. He says to me, let me finish and wash up and we can go. In the background to all this craziness going on I was feeling these very mixed messages and kept getting this, “slow down, sweet thing, slow down and pay attention.” I of course push it to the back of my mind. We are about to leave and I’m hearing “Did you forget something?” No, I say, and we walk out the door. To make a long story short we went out and ate and we were about 20 minutes from home. I get a call halfway through the meal from ADT telling me that the fire alarm has gone off on the second floor and are we ok.

Ok? No, I’m not ok, we are not home and we have 3 dogs and 3 cats and they can’t get out. My sister turns to my husband and said, did you turn off the stove. No, he says. All the way home I kept crying out to Michael saying please protect my animals since that was all I cared about and the other lives that lived in our building. I was able to get ahold of my neighbor to ask her to get my dogs out because the house was on fire. Driving 80 mph we finally got home to see the dogs out front and firemen there. The house was filled with thick, black smoke. You could not stay in it nor could you see a thing. The miracle in all of this is that nothing had caught fire yet but was about to. The only damage was to the pot. The stove, oven, etc. was fine and all we had was smoke damage which took a few days to get out of the house.

The moral of the story is this: Yes, we are all busy; yes we feel we have no time as we rush around like little ants going from here to there and not thinking of what is going on around us. Your guides and angels do whisper in small voices when you are in danger, all you have to do is to slow down and listen.

My advice to you is to write down what you hear, even if it’s just one word, then stop what you’re doing and relax… Slow down and LISTEN! You will be glad that you did.

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All about Angels: Let’s Chat!

julianna_day_buttonAuthor: Julianna Day

The mystery isn’t how to chat with an angel. That’s easy: Pull up a chair; find a spot in nature; have ‘pillow talk’ before you drift to sleep. The tricky part is hearing their responses!

Below are a few tips for putting yourself in the best possible, most receptive state and what to expect when you do receive an angelic message.

Imagine. One of my favorite ways to communicate with my angels is not to talk at all! While sitting quietly or in bed right before I fall asleep, I picture being wrapped in the protective wings of an angel. During times of fear or grief, the sense of being enveloped – hidden, even – by these glorious beings will leave you with a feeling of peace and comfort. The message that you will ‘hear’ isn’t one of words, but of feelings and sensations. Often reported are feelings of being cared for or that someone has concern for their concerns and often a sometimes almost irrational knowing that all will be well.

Look and Listen. Always approach your angels with respect – but be yourself. Don’t worry about flowery words or poetic prose. You are most clearly heard when you speak, simply, from your heart. This style of communicating is a great choice when you are concerned about which direction you should go and are asking for angelic guidance. Should I leave him?; Will she change?; Would I be better served finding another job? are all good examples of the kinds of dilemmas that are often answered within the world around us.

000013353262XSmallCreate a Ritual. Sounds complicated! Really, it’s just a matter of creating a special “place” where you go to talk with your angels. It can be a spare room that you’ve decorated with angelic images and candles; it can be the corner of the kitchen; or it can be a beautiful “place” you’ve created in your imagination that you ‘go to’ each time. It doesn’t matter where your Place is or what color candles you choose! The idea behind creating this real or imaginary space has little to do with the space itself and everything to do with the mindset that you have while you’re there. The distractions that can creep in with the other styles of chat are lessened!

“One is nearer God’s heart in a garden than anywhere else on earth.” As Dorothy Gurney’s saying goes! One of the best ways to hear your angels clearly is in and through nature. Silly as it sounds, take your shoes off and stand barefoot in the grass. “Hug” a tree. Sit quietly in the wood or by a flower garden. Take a nature hike. The energy of the pure-world will help you to connect and really hear clearly.

These are just a few tips to help you hear the messages that your angels have for you.

It’s been a pleasure blogging about these mystical, magical, ever-loving beings. May you see angels all around you – in those you meet, in nature and even in your quiet repose – each and every day!

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Do you turn LOVE down with someone whose Sun sign is not COMPATIBLE with your own?

soultruthAuthor: Soul Truth

If you think you need to be with a sun sign that compliments your sun sign and steer away from those that don’t fit that pattern, you could well be missing out on meeting that soul mate that you have been looking for, for life times.

In all the time I have been reading in regards to love relationships I have found that even if air and fire signs are supposed to collide or you feel a water sign is just too emotional for you, to find the one that is compatible with yourself you really should try not to be so tunnel visioned.

Although the position of the planets at the time of our birth affect us in many ways so do our birth numbers shown in our birth date and our birth given names. So make sure you are not turning down that Taurus because you fear they could be boring, that Scorpio because of their directness or the Aquarian that thinks love to death just because they don’t fit with what your Sun sign suggests you are compatible with.

I believe that a soul mate can be any sun sign and we should be open to giving every living soul that shows an interest in us a second thought before jumping to any astrological or numerological decision in regards to whether they are right for us or not. This may sound contradictory of me to say so since I do look at soul connections between your numbers and whether a relationship looks to be compatible enough to work from your birth numbers, however a soul mate is someone that you are likely to have karma with from a past life and is not necessarily a love partner. They can also be a parent, sibling or close friend that you have no love attraction to that you have a journey with this life time to perhaps pay back some karmic debt to or teach some karmic lesson to.

iStock_000016765645SmallWhatever the case may be make sure your heart is open if you are looking for love…Thinking that if it is love you will be attracted to the person straight away is a myth because when this happens it is usually the physical appearance of the person that is the first thing connecting us. And from my experience a lot of those type of relationships start off with lust and end in one or both getting terribly hurt when the lust wears off and the personality clashes or bad habits or other issues start to show.

I believe that we can all have great relationships with all types of sun signs regardless of what our chart tells us and I have a few techniques that I have tested and tried for a couple of decades now with clients that work.

So if someone says to you when you are interested in someone “Oh don’t date him/her because they are a Gemini Capricorn Aries” or whatever sign that is not supposed to compliment your own in love don’t let that stop you from being that little bit inquisitive to go on a few dates and just see why the attraction was there in the first place…to be too picky can mean that you never find the right one for you because you turned them down years before through wrong, staid thinking.

I can usually tell more about the compatibility of a couple through their first name and date of birth than I can by their sun sign alone…and then of course there is the moon sign that shows how they deal with the emotional side of life but I will leave that for another blog.

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What NOT to Expect During a Full Moon


rhiannon_pailleAuthor: Rhiannon Paille

The full moon is a phenomenon often touted for its unexpected occurrences, shape-shifting mythologies and paranormal occurrences. While the full moon in popular culture has rooted itself firmly into our belief systems, the actual energetic influences of a full moon have been forgotten. The full moon is the culmination of a cycle, marking the end of the waxing cycle and the beginning of the waning cycle. During a full moon, the moon appears opposite the sun. If you remember your aspects in astrology you’ll know that opposites are not a good thing, and during full moons, the sun and the moon are definitely at odds with one another. It can be difficult to decipher these subtle recurring energies, especially since no two full moons are the same. Here are some things that will not happen during a full moon.


Unexpected ideas or projects being added to your plate

While the full moon has been rumored to be the bearer of unexpected occurrences, it is unlikely that you will begin anything new during a full moon. The full moon energy is more likely to have you cleaning out a storage closet, tying up loose ends, or completing a project you’ve been working on for a while. The key to a full moon is endings, fulfillment, and success.

Unexpected progress in relationships

I’ve heard of people acting weirder than usual during the full moon, doing things like professing their undying love or kissing people they didn’t mean to kiss, but let’s be real, a full moon isn’t going to make you feel something you didn’t previously feel. Alcohol might have that effect, but a full moon is about completing what has already been manifested. So if you were bottling up feelings, it is possible for those emotions to come out during a full moon.

Awakening to your spiritual side

While the full moon always seems to be the blame of paranormal activity, it is unlikely that you will be able to experience a clear awakening during a full moon. The opposition between the moon and the sun puts your emotions at risk, the moon representing your deeper emotions and the sun representing your personality. When these two major bodies are at odds with one another it’s actually more difficult for you to have spiritual clarity. You are more likely to feel pulled in two different directions during the full moon than you are to have a spiritual awakening.

Anything on the Other Side visiting you

Again, paranormal activity is actually more difficult to achieve during the full moon. There is only one time of the year when the veil is so thin that it’s easier for the other side and other worlds to bleed through to Earth and that’s Samhain, November 1st, also better known as Halloween.

The best way you can handle the full moon is to treat it with respect. Be sure you’re not harboring emotions (in case you kiss someone who might not be ready for it), or are behind on projects (because that full moon is bound to make you pull an all-nighter.) Don’t spend your time wigging out about the other side and you should be able to live through the next full moon unscathed. The next full moon hits July 12th, traveling through Capricorn, making you focus on what’s important.

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All about Angels: The Archangels

julianna_day_buttonAuthor: Julianna Day

Arch Angel,” translated from Greek, means “Chief Angel” – and chief they are! What are their roles? Can we call on them by name? Why would an angel so powerful rush to my aid? Do they have specific talents?

Archangels are the angels that we hear most often about in literature and within the Judaic, Islamic and Christian faith traditions. They are heavenly messengers on steroids! If you are seeking a subtle approach, this isn’t the Order to invoke. This group means business.

It’s easy to imagine that lengthy prayer and deep meditation would be the key to asking for and receiving guidance from this special Order. What we must always remember is that – like all Orders – the Archangels were created to assist us as we take this sometimes pretty scary journey – Life! Calling out to them by name; asking for them to be with you, to help you, to guide you – just as you would a dear friend – will work just as effectively. The real key, always, is sincerity.

Each Archangel is divinely gifted with certain responsibilities and talents. Following are the names we’ve assigned them, their specialties and how we interpret them through art. Although we traditionally recognize seven, here are the top four!

Michael, whose name means, Who is like unto God?, is brandishing a gleaming sword in michaelhis right hand and, in his left, a green palm. He’s the war-savvy angel that we call upon to help us in our daily battles. Initially, Michael was charged with removing Satan, himself; but in our every-day-world, we can paint his purpose with a broader brush. For example, when you are fearful walking to your car in a dark parking garage – it is Michael to the rescue! “Michael protect me!,” summons this mighty warrior and protector to your side.

Gabriel, or Might of God, is often illustrated as holding a lantern in his right hand and a gabrielmirror of green jasper in his left. God often chooses Gabriel to carry His most important messages. Gabriel is the go-to angel when we need to clear away confusion and receive the wisdom that we need to make important decisions – and gain the confidence to act on those choices. “Be by my side, Gabriel. Please help me to see clearly and go forward with courage” will ensure you aren’t alone when it comes time to make a difficult decision.

There could be no better translation of Raphael than God’s healing. In art, Raphael is raphaeloften painted as guiding Tobit with his right hand while carrying an alabaster physician’s jar in his left. When summoned, Raphael brings with him an emerald-green light of healing and comfort … but there’s even more to this beautiful angel! Raphael is the angel of happy meetings. Getting us through those difficult, conflict-ridden situations; Raphael holds our hand and leads us into the path of those we are meant to meet. Raph, as I like to call him!, is the angel best summoned when we are looking to meet that special someone. “Raphael, please be with me, guard me, guide me, heal me and those in my life so that I may know true peace.”

True to his name, Uriel – or Light of God — carries a sword in his right hand and a flame in his left. I like to think of this not-so-well-known archangel as the Path Lighter. When we urieldon’t know which way to turn, can’t see the truth in a situation or have lost our way along our path, it is Uriel’s light that leads us home. Here’s a lovely way of asking for and receiving Uriel’s intercession: close your eyes then ask, “Please light my next step with God’s light, Uriel, so that I may not stumble; and give me the courage and confidence to go forward on the path you have illuminated.” Then open your eyes! You may find that the answer you’ve been seeking is right there for you; or you may go through your day or week receiving subtle messages and guidance that steers you in the right direction.

I would love to hear about your angel encounters! Please feel free to email me with your stories and questions – I look forward to chatting with you!

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Love it or Let it Be?

seek_your_fateAuthor: Seek Your Fate

It takes less than four minutes for a you to decide whether the person you just met is someone you want to date. You know it almost instantly. Your heart begins to beat rapidly. You lose your train of thought. You cannot help but to stare at that person. You find yourself having one of the most intense conversations you have ever had but yet not a word is even spoken. It is primal. It is in your body language. It is in those moments that a new attraction is formed.

000012866457However, what enables some to qualify to be a lasting memory in your life while others only linger for a season or two? With my empathic abilities, and experience as a Love and Relationship reader, I have come to understand that some people despite your connection is only meant to be in your life short term. That does not mean that person did not care enough about you or the relationship to make it last. It also does not mean that the relationship was not important.

It is often the relationships that do not last that end up teaching you the most. A failing relationship can teach you what you really need from your partner. It can also allow you to see what you can, and cannot accept in a relationship. Looking at relationships in that sense, every person you date plays an important role in your life. The hardest part is valuing yourself and determining if that person is someone to Love or Let be?

The worst thing for a person is to deny their own happiness by staying in a relationship that they know is not the right one for them. Breaking up is emotionally and physically draining. Yet, imagine If you could love the wrong person that much, how much you could love the right one?

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Meditation with Rock Crystal

missfuturoAuthor: Miss Futuro

Sometimes, coming back home from a hard day of work, or after a stressful day, you may feel that your brain is exploding: there are still a lot of things to do, and duties, and tasks, and people asking things from you, and you may feel overwhelmed. Or, you are staying at home all day and don’t feel you have the energy to just get up and move, and your mind keeps going back on the same issues again and again, you feel stuck in a rut. In both situations, and, more in general, in situations where you feel out of balance, you are stressed and you need meditation. Take a little time for yourself, and for yourself only, and pamper yourself with a meditation with crystals.

What you will need: a crystal, of course – In this article we are going to use the White Quartz, the clear transparent one, for a neutral meditation and a purification of thoughts. Other kinds of crystals can be used, such as Pink Quartz, Yellow Quartz, Smokey Quartz, or Amethyst, for different purposes. But today we are going to use White Quartz. You will not need a really big piece actually, it’s enough if it has the dimension of one inch and a half. The important thing is it has to be very clear, but still quite raw, without any piece of metal and jewels attached to it. You can easily find it in a gem shop for a few dollars. Then you will need a big comfortable cushion (and, optional, a blanket, depending on how cold is outside), comfortable clothes and a carpet, a New Age music CD (choose a relaxing, ambient one instead of a Medieval or Tribal one), a candle (it’s up to you the choice, you can choose a colored one or a perfumed one with the fragrance you like most).

There will be no need for charging and magnetizing the crystal as we would do if we wanted to wear it, or to use it for therapy. Having just to use it for meditation, it will be enough to wash it for five minutes under flowing water, just to eliminate all energies and impurities it may have collected.

Most important thing: You will have to be completely alone for thirty minutes, so choose a room where nobody will disturb you, disconnect the phone, shut down your PC and tell other people to leave you alone.

Then, close the shutters and light the candle. Position the candle in a place where it can shed some light. Start the CD. Put the carpet on the floor and position the cushion on it, then dress up yourself with the comfortable clothes (no shoes are allowed). Sit on the cushion with crossed legs, try to find a comfortable position and at the same time try to keep your back straight. Keep the crystal in your hands.

Now start the meditation. Inhale and exhale, following where your breath goes and paying attention to it. Once you feel you have become more calm and your breath is regular, start staring at the crystal. Look at its transparence. When a thought comes to your mind, don’t try to stop it or fight it, just let it flow, and then focus again on the transparence of the crystal. Say to yourself: “My mind is sharp and clean like this crystal.” Imagine yourself in a place out of time, like a garden, in which only peace and serenity reigns, and in the middle of the garden there is the crystal.


Imagine it bigger than it is, like a big rock. Imagine that from it a fountain flows, a fountain of clear, transparent and crystalline water, just as the crystal. Say to yourself, “My mind is clear and transparent like this water, every thought and every worry is washed away by this pure water.” When you are distracted, or tired, keep staring at the crystal and start focusing again. Try to feel like you and the crystal are one thing. Keep breathing calmly and regularly, control your breath and inhale and exhale. Keep repeating to yourself, “Every breath I take is calm, and perfect like this crystal.”

In this way you will come to feel a very peaceful sensation. It’s important not to fall asleep, but to keep focusing on the crystal and on concentration. At the beginning it will be very hard to do it, but after a few meditations, it will become automatic. The ideal duration for this meditation is at least half an hour. When this time has passed gently put away the crystal, open your eyes and massage your temples. Then slowly get up.

You can do this meditation whenever you want and you will always have a peaceful place to go when you feel stressed or need a moment to disconnect. It’s very empowering and will put your mind right back on track. Try and then let me know!

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All About Angels: Angels 101

julianna_day_buttonAuthor: Julianna Day

Make yourself familiar with the angels, and behold them frequently in spirit; for without being seen, they are present with you. – Francis de Sales

We’ve heard they are tiny enough to dance by the millions on the head of a pin one minute and, the next, grand enough to appear eight feet tall with robes of brilliant white light, sporting gossamer wings. (Although, any being who can dance on the head of a pin is, by definition, pretty darned “grande”!)

Who are they? What are they? Can we see them? Hear them? Talk with them? Do I really have one assigned just to me? What powers do they have? How can I know if they are around me? In short: What’s the deal with angels?

Over the next few weeks, in All About Angels, we’ll take a look at those questions and, hopefully, bring you closer to understanding, recognizing and experiencing the angelic realm — and learning more about how to embrace it as a part of your everyday world.

Let’s get started with a crash course: Angels 101!

angelTranslated from the Hebrew and Greek, Angel means Messenger. It’s in this role that we most often experience their work. They can be the silent whisperers that tells us Sue doesn’t have our best interest at heart; or prompt us to share our story or offer words of gentle encouragement to a stranger.

Angels have never been and will never be human. They are solely (and soul-ly) spirit. Simply put, Grandma Ellie may have been an “angel,” but she will never be an Angel!

That being said, angels are known to manifest in human form. They can be the young woman who smiles at you just when you need it most; the good Samaritan who waits in the dark with you until the tow truck arrives; the elderly man struggling with his grocery bags — giving you the opportunity to be kind and helpful.

Their presence isn’t always as obvious as the lady sitting across from you on the bus. Angels can appear as flames of fire and even rushes of wind.

Timing is their forte! One of the easiest ways to know you’ve experienced angelic intervention has to do with the “when.” Were you waiting for the train, confused about whether or not to look for a new job, when the wind blew the want ads section against your legs? Or you overheard someone talking about how happy they were that they made the decision to stay put in their company? Messages from the Messengers!

In literature, angels are historically referred to as being male. In truth, they are genderless — being only spirit — and can assume both feminine and masculine forms.

Even angels have a hierarchy! Nine to be exact: Angels, archangels, virtues, powers, principalities, dominions, thrones, cherubim, and seraphim. It’s best (and easiest) to think of them as Orders rather than who-is-more-important-than-whom. Each Order has an area of expertise and accountability.

Next time we’ll look at the Archangels and the special, specific ways they can help us in our lives.

Have an angel question? Email me at and I’ll select a question and offer a reply next time!