Does Everyone Have a Soulmate?
Did you know that there are actually people out there who would have you believe that some of us don’t have a soulmate? How outrageous is it to think that someone may not know such a beautiful experience? But it’s true, there are some schools of thought that outright deny the existence of soulmates, or claim that not everyone has one.
Let’s put those rumors to rest already. I can tell you with certainty, that everyone has at least one; you have to have at least one. If you were as lucky as my grandparents, you’ll connect at 14 years of age and never look back, have 7 children, 24 grandchildren and 56 great grandchildren to enjoy.
On the other hand, you might be more like me – a Gen X’er – or millennial – growing up in a completely different era. You might be someone who has had more than one real relationship, experiencing love to the fullest, and coming to realize that soulmates are real, but not always meant to be permanent; Especially in this new age, where everything is constantly changing. I would have loved to have met my one and only early, settle down and start my life. But each time I thought I did, I was wrong. I desperately wanted to live a life like my grandparents – start young, have an army of children and grow old together, arguing about how firm the pasta should be.
Despite this desire, my experience took me to many places and people, each time knowing for a fact that the person I was with was my soulmate. I gave each relationship my all, doing everything and loving without reservation – nothing was too much or too hard. With each one, I intended on advancing the union to the very end. With some of them, I experienced love so thoroughly that I thought for sure this had to be it. But even when the last one didn’t work out, when it became impossible and I came to the conclusion that this person didn’t love me the way I need and couldn’t truly understand, appreciate, or respect me – I still never gave up on the idea, the notion, or the belief of a soulmate.
Nor should you! The last go round, or 2 or 3, may not have been so great. So what? Move forward – what is up ahead for you? What did you learn from the previous encounter? And what can you take with you to the next one? Every soulmate is meant to impart some individual lessons and experiences to help you grow, and vice versa – it’s not one-sided. We gather together, as bees do, to meet, greet, and do a dance with one another. Lessons are learned, imparted and shared. When the time comes that one, or both, of you are supremely unable to continue – you move on. Imagine if you were STUCK with that person for the rest of your life because it’s your soulmate, having to work it out, no excuses blah blah and more blah. We’ve all seen what that turns into; In sticking it out with the wrong person, you inhibit their growth as well as your own. Neither of you get anywhere by holding on past the expiry date of your relationship.
So then the question becomes not, do you have a soulmate. But how to identify them.
The truth is, you will go through soulmates, one after the other, until you and your ultimate, twin flame soulmate are prepared to meet. For some it happens quickly and for others the process seems endless; but what happens when you meet your soulmate is that there is no longer any confusion. You come to realize that before that moment, life was missing something and the reality you were living was only a tenth of what it is now, and as much as you may have loved before, you never really knew what love is until NOW. You fully understand that every experience, every lesson, every moment, every relationship has brought you to this place of peace, love, and fulfillment.
So to those who don’t believe or are still wondering if soulmates are real – I say, do what works for you and the truth will be revealed in time. But to those who have hope, who never gave up and who are still searching, to you I say, keep going. Don’t ever give up on the promise. It’s not about the destination, it’s about every single moment that leads you toward true love. In time, when it’s perfect, when your stars have aligned in just the right way, you’ll know love again. Love on an even grander scale than ever before. If you have found a soulmate, work at it, learn and grow together, as one. If you haven’t yet and are still looking, never give up on the idea, and always hold onto that hope. The stars will eventually align again, and whether your next love relationship is your soulmate or twin flame, it only gets better from here.
I share this with you from my personal understanding and the experience of helping people with their love relationships every day. Using my gifts and abilities, I can see from an elevated place the bigger picture behind your love relationships and the lessons they provide. With these insights I can help you move more quickly through the process of finding your true, twin flame soulmate – or recognizing them if you already found them – So you can finally experience the love and joy you deserve.
Written By Top Kasamba Advisor Divine Messenger Zuco